Friday, August 30, 2019

You Can Add Singing To Your Mental Health Toolbox




Crooning out the mesmerizing tune of Celtic Woman’s rendition of “Caledonia” held me up from starting this article. You’ve felt it before; the rush of belting out every word perfectly to your favorite song, using all the breath in your lungs to support the notes; you connect to the lyrics and melody. It’s exhilarating, comforting, fun, and, at times, physically challenging in best way! Did you know singing, for all these qualities and more, is good for your mental health?


I’ve loved singing my whole life but didn’t start truly using my full voice until my tonsils were removed (which don’t recommend doing in your 20’s if you can help it). I was taking classic voice courses in college and practiced fervently during that time. Later, I’d be preparing for regular stage roles involving use of my trained vocals. Having been out of lessons and theater for some time, I don’t regularly make time for my voice training.

But I need to make time for singing! The difference in me when practiced and when not is becoming clear. What I share with you here probably explains why.


Here are four ways singing benefits your mental health:


Singing makes you happier: I feel better when I sing. Sometimes I sing when I’m sad because I know it will bring my mood up. This is due to the act of singing releasing different hormones, such as endorphins, that promote improved mood. This becomes even more powerful when singing in a group


Singing improves sleep: Doubtless you know that sleep has a major impact on mental health and many other functions of the body. It can even create a cyclical affect if a mental illness impacts sleep you become more tired, and then your tiredness affects your mental illness and back around. One impact singing can have on sleep is by strengthening muscles in the throat which reduces snoring. Less snoring = more sleep!


Singing is great physical activity: I won’t go into the benefits of physical activity and exercise here. If you want more information, check out my earlier article on it. Did you know singing is exercise, too? Since physical activity has major benefits for mental health, singing is another fun option to add a different type of exercise to your routine. I know my lungs and core always feel stronger when I’m regularly practicing vocals. Singing certainly feels like a workout to me!


Singing relieves stress: You may be working out some muscles when signing, but you’re also reducing muscle tension, thereby reducing stress. Additionally, it’s been found that singing reduces cortisol, one of the stress hormones. Singing is certainly soothing to me. I definitely feel less stressed when regularly challenging my vocal abilities.


As I finish this article I’m enjoying my favorite song from The Darkness, “I Believe In A Thing Called Love,” while joining vocalist Justin Hawkins in the high notes! It’s time I get back into practicing singing every day to support my mental health progress.


How about you? Is singing going to become one of your ways to support mental health and wellness? Let me know in the comments, or on social media at Twitter or Instagram!



Works Cited


Celtic Woman. "Caledonia." Emerald: Music Gems, 2007.

Horn, Stacy. “Singing Changes Your Brain.” Time, Time, 16 Aug. 2013, http://ideas.time.com/2013/08/16/singing-changes-your-brain/.

Ibe, Uche. “Three Ways Singing Makes You Healthier.” Making Music Magazine, 24 Apr. 2019, https://makingmusicmag.com/three-ways-singing-makes-you-healthier/.

Innes, Emma. “How Singing Could Be the Key to a Good Night's Sleep: Research Suggests Vocal Exercises Can Stop Snoring.” Daily Mail Online, Associated Newspapers Ltd, 16 Aug. 2013, https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2395795/How-singing-key-good-nights-sleep-Research-suggests-vocal-exercises-stop-snoring.html.

The Darkness. "I Believe In A Thing Called Love." Permission To Land, 2003.

University of East Anglia. "How singing your heart out could make you happier." ScienceDaily. ScienceDaily, 21 December 2017. <www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/12/171221101402.htm>.


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Friday, August 23, 2019

Mental Illness Does Not Cause Mass Violence. Period.



I’d hoped it would be another blip on the radar: the blaming of mass shootings and violence on mental illness. This has been the claim so many times, and so many times it has been disproved by countless studies and experts. Although the idea will crop up here and there, it typically gets quickly quashed. This time it’s gone on for weeks, making headlines (touted by powerful persons), and I felt the need to address it.


Mental illness does not cause mass violence.


I could rant about the above in pages upon pages of text. I could find countless research articles and research summaries proving that statement. I could, but I’m not.

I’m choosing not to do this because there shouldn’t need to be any explanation. People with mental illness, people like me and the people I serve, are not going to be the scapegoat. I am glad there are others calling out powerful people for using us this way. However, I am tired of the fact that anyone has to continually be reminded that mental illness does not equal violence.

I want it to stand as a fact, alone, that having a mental illness is not the common thread tying together mass shootings. So I offer you no research, no statistics, no argument. You and I know the truth so I will preach it as fact.

Yes, people can do terrible things and some of those people might have a mental illness, but they also might not.

People with mental illnesses are your neighbors, your kids, your co-workers, your teachers, and, yes, your therapists, too. You know them living peacefully beside you, offering you support at work and school, and guiding you through your own difficulties with care and compassion. They are productive members of society managing their mental illness the same way another person might any physical illness.

Speaking of physical illnesses (like diabetes and multiple sclerosis)—what do you think the reaction would be to a world leader blaming mass violence on one of these illnesses? How about blaming mass violence on all the physical illnesses?

That’s what happening when someone says that mental illness causes mass violence. They are saying that all of the mental illnesses are causing mass violence. This is directed towards every person diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, generalized anxiety, panic disorder, depression, bipolar disorder, post-traumatic stress, any substance use disorder, anorexia nervosa, somatoform disorder….these are only a fraction of the mental illnesses diagnosable by standards used in the United States.

How stupid it sounds to consider this asinine claim. How harmful it is that all of these people, all of us, get stigmatized once again. How long does it take before we don’t allow the idea to be entertained?

Stand up and preach our truth that mental illness does not cause mass violence.


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Friday, August 16, 2019

What Are You Waiting For? Get Outdoors to Improve Your Mental Health!


Herons on the Water by Ali Nicole


The fresh air, the soothing breeze, the vibrant colors and deep textures, all buzzing with life. That’s what I enjoyed over a long weekend as I made my way outdoors to explore local nature trails for healing and tranquility. I want to share with you the benefits to mental health I found there.

If you follow this blog on Instagram, you might have seen this article coming as I’ve posted multiple pictures from my walks already. Indeed, I found it so inspiring and beautiful I had to share it with you! I feel it’s also worth exploring the mental health benefits of being outside in nature.

The Mental Health Benefits I Found In Nature Walks


Joy – The biggest benefit that stands out is the joy I got from my time outside. It’s difficult not to smile and revel in the art in nature. I saw brilliantly colored wildflowers, expansive spider webs wet with dew, and wildlife at peace in safe habitats. Joy is temporary because it is an emotion but it is something you can seek out in experiences such as this!


Relaxation and stress reduction – There is no hurry out on the trails. While you can benefit from the physical activity, that’s not the primary objective. It can be, but you can also just allow nature to be a place to breathe like I did. Take your time meandering and devouring the sites.


Self-esteem boost – This was unexpected, but I felt like a priestess of the Earth as I connected with nature. Although I was in my yoga getup and sneakers, I look back envisioning myself as the gothic goddess at my core spirit. Try going out on a beautiful, lush nature trail and not feel like the lady of the lake. I don’t believe it can be done.


Clear mind – The ability to feel present and aware in the moment has never been stronger than in the moments I’m exploring wooded trails. In fact, the experience is perfect for practicing mindfulness because it’s so simple to put your mind solely on the beauty in front of you. Where I go, there tends to be a lot of tree roots protruding from the ground, so I had to be extra aware so as not to fall!


Companionship – You can choose to go with others or on your own (safety precautions taken, of course), but from my experience I enjoying the trails most with others. Sharing the experience reduces feelings of isolation and gives an extra set of eyes and point of view. What you miss, a companion can highlight for you.



If you’ve read the rest of the blog, you know I had to do some research to see if there was empirical support for what I was experiencing.




I found a bevy of information from an article on the MentalHealth Benefits of the Outdoors. Reduced stress and increased joy are major benefits, just as I felt. Better concentration and attention are also indicated, which I consider parts of a clear mind.  Additionally, according to a 2005 study, mixing the outdoors with exercise has been shown to boost self-esteem as well when the setting is eye-pleasing. You may already know from my previous article on exercise, that physical activity can reduce loneliness because it tends puts you in contact with other—moving outdoors fits into this as well.



What benefits can you find in the outdoors? Embrace your inner weirdo and step into the skin of the Earthen god or goddess you’ve always wanted to be. Find your own mental health benefits exploring outside.
 



Works Cited

“Exercise and Mental Health.” Healthdirect, www.healthdirect.gov.au/exercise-and-mental-health.

McMichael, Sarah. “Mental Health Benefits of Spending Time in Nature.” Ontario Parks, 23 Apr. 2019, www.ontarioparks.com/parksblog/mental-health-benefits-outdoors/.

Pretty, J, et al. “The Mental and Physical Health Outcomes of Green Exercise.” International Journal of Environmental Health Research, vol. 15, no. 5, Oct. 2005, pp. 319–337. The National Center for Biotechnology Information, doi:10.1080/09603120500155963.



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Friday, August 9, 2019

Anxiety Locked Me Into Battle


I’m Winning the War


I was in tears again, my breathing quick and my face contorted, ruminating on the wasted time and money put out for a career I couldn’t handle. The focus remained on all I’d given up just to be a frantic mess every Sunday, like clockwork. There was no breaking out of it once I got there. The physical sensation along with the damning thoughts closed in on me, locking me in tight.

I would fall asleep that night quickly, exhausted from my evening meltdown—it felt like I could have well melted from the fire that burned inside, threatening to consume me. Sleep would be short-lived because this night, like every night before the work week began, I would wake in a panic to irrational thoughts. My tired mind had no chance of fighting. Once fully awake, I wrestled the thoughts and put them to rest, but by then I knew it would be up and down for the remainder of my five resting hours.

Another week for me to start off groggy and in pain from apparent TMJ. I wouldn’t get a full night’s rest until Thursday and the cycle would repeat. That was my story from fall of last year to spring of this one.

A Lifetime of Fighting Anxiety Monsters


Before that tale was a similar one in which I’d have nightmares about not finishing all that was needed for the wedding. In the evenings I’d be angry with my significant other that we were planning a wedding at all because it was too much pressure. All the while, I refused to share the burden (needing control) with anyone until the very end. Once I did, my bridesmaids, husband and mom were happy to help.

I can lump every period of my life into a saga based around the biggest contributor to anxiety: the wrath of God; fear of losing my loved ones; being alone forever; school; job; school; health; grad school; licensing; getting a job…all the way up to the wedding and back to the job. During each one I’d think, “once I get past this one thing, I’ll feel better. Things will be better.”

It never got better. There was always something, even when there shouldn’t have been. The next big bad I’d quest to slay.

How Would Life Be Different Without Anxiety Battles?


Hindsight is 20/20, and I know now that I’ve got a master’s degree in counseling that I’ve dealt with anxiety my whole life. In grade school, my mom would complain at every doctor visit that I had terrible stomach pains multiple times a week. It’s hard not to feel bitter that they lazily recommended me eating more fruits and vegetables (which I already at enough of). Though I shouldn’t look back, I do and wonder how different my life would have been if they’d seen my anxiety for what it was and I was treated early.

I spent so many years of my life trapped in battle with anxiety I had no clue existed but what if I didn’t? Would I have made friends easier if I wasn’t so busy second-guessing myself? What would I have done with all the energy from nights not spent waking to panic attacks, sitting up to catch my breath and calm my heart multiple times a night? Would I have gotten past impostor syndrome in time to decide I could succeed in a “hard” graduate program, rather than talking myself away from it? (Side note: my program was just as hard as any doctoral program).

 The Final Battle with Anxiety


Those answers are lost to fate and there’s no changing it. My only power is in shaping the here and now so that I never let anxiety trap me again. I can proudly say now, after a fierce battle, that I am not staring down a big bad anymore.

That’s not to say the difficulties of life haven’t been threatening my newfound freedom. Quite the opposite. My work is stressful—but only because it’s important—my mom just had surgery—and it was successful—and my best friend got married and I was the matron of honor—it was beautiful. So, yes, I still have reasons to be anxious and could have turned any of these into my current catastrophe, but that didn’t happen.

How did I go from a lifetime of fighting unending battles to declaring peace inside myself? I started by recognizing the mental illness for what it was. It came shortly before I graduated. Prior to that, I didn’t see a pattern, I didn’t want to see the signs and symptoms, and I just assumed I was an irritable and reactive person. Once I did come to understand what I was dealing with, it would still be a lengthy road to wellness.

I knew what I needed to do; go see a counselor. That’s hard when you plan to get a job as a counselor in a small, rural area with limited job options. A conflict of interest develops if you want to work the same place your counselor is. I ended up putting this off in the interest of employment.

Trying to work on myself on my own, I turned to the Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques I’d learned in school. It helped responding to my negative and irrational thoughts. The physical experience of anxiety was still there so I returned to my exercise routine which helped some. I still struggled.

They say the third time’s a charm and that was true when I saw my third endocrinologist who finally diagnosed me with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS), a hormonal disorder that can impact mood and overall function. I advocated for my health during this time and took a chance on treatment which did help. I wasn’t over yet; I still had work to do.

Already taking a couple of new medications for PCOS, I was hesitant to go to a psychiatrist and add another. It was tough to consider, but I couldn’t manage the physical symptoms of anxiety anymore—the chest pain, the headaches, the shortness of breath, the fatigue, the distractedness, and the emotional reactivity. It didn’t take a high dose to treat my symptoms and in just over a year I’m reducing the dose successfully.

There was one more action left to take. It was the weekly tears and aching regret regarding my work, something I was passionate about and worked so hard for, that woke me up to what I finally needed to do. It was time to seek my own therapy. I’ve had relatively few sessions and am about to complete treatment. This step took me full circle and now I feel confident in my work and get to actually enjoy what I do. Along with that, I have full management of my symptoms.

During the therapeutic process, I also had to make behavioral changes to impact my mood. I joined a gym with my husband and our friends. I believe this has been a major part of my improvement due to the increased social interaction and physical activity. I also broke down the barrier that was keeping me from doing what I’ve wanted to for so long; writing. I’ve slowly moved into the world of writing that I’d been putting off for 10 years. It was a relief to know I could be a counselor and a writer and not have to choose.

Freedom from Anxiety


Finally, I was able to bring together all that I needed to win the final battle against lifelong anxiety. I had to be aware of what was going on, manage my physical health, manage the physical symptoms of anxiety, and introduce positive mental strategies to make these steps successful. Now that I’ve made it, I refuse to go back. There will never be another big bad. I’ve won this war.


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Friday, August 2, 2019

Managing Mental Health with Mindfulness


Imagine what it would feel like to fully focus on a moment without reaching into the phantom future or stewing in the concrete past. How would the moment change without negative judgments or fearful possibilities hovering over it? Mindfulness reveal the present and it’s a great tool for mental wellness.

When mindfulness was first introduced to me, I was resistant. I remember sitting in class, building up the mental brick wall to the intangible exercises that sounded far too much like meditation. “This hippy stuff won’t work,” I thought skeptically.

In the present, my skepticism has softened into acceptance. The concept of mindfulness as a healthy practice has seeped into my pores through osmosis. It surrounded me until one day I found the brick wall keeping it out completely dissolved.

Mindfulness broke down my resistance because, well, it works! Once it’s learned, it can’t be unlearned. I’ve taken it in and utilized it on my own without even intending to as I’ve brought it to my therapeutic work. Unwittingly, I find myself loving the practice the more I preach it.

Enough of me gushing! Let me explain what mindfulness is, what it does, and how you can use it for your benefit.


 What is mindfulness?

Mindfulness is the practice of being in the moment, fully present, without judgment. It is closely connected in meditation and a necessary part of it some might say. However, meditation isn’t needed to use mindfulness. Mindfulness can act all its own to provide an array of benefits to many areas of living—this article will just be focusing on mental health.


What does mindfulness do?

It reduces stress—When aware in the moment, we are able to recognize what is happening in mind and body before it overcomes us. Mindfulness can give a fighting chance against stress. Consider this, if you notice your thoughts are negative and rapid along with tense shoulders, you have the power to attend to your thoughts and work to relax your tensing muscles. Bringing the buildup of stress to a halt.

The research backs this up—researchers found in 2007 that mindfulness reduced overall levels of stress in graduate students studying clinical psychology. As a bonus, they found a reduction in ruminating on thoughts and, as we will explore more below, the participants were better able to regulate emotions (Shapiro et al., 2007).


It improves emotional regulation—Think of a time when you didn’t recognize how you were feeling until it disrupted the day, others began to notice the change, or, at worst, it was misdirected to cause emotional harm to self or others. Using mindfulness promotes awareness of emotional experience which can increase reaction time to said emotions for management. The sooner the emotions are recognized, the sooner their impact can be managed and reduced; emotional regulation.

Improved emotional regulation with use of mindfulness was specifically studied by Hill and Updegraff in 2011. Results of this study showed with mindfulness practice, emotional regulation was improved and this included reduced emotional reactivity and less rapid switching between emotions (Hill & Updegraff, 2011). Mindfulness practice enhanced the ability to control emotions rather than letter emotions be in control.


It can help treat anxiety and depression symptoms—Anxiety and depression can both be related to stress and emotional deregulation. We know mindfulness helps with both of these. Additionally, anxiety sends the mind into the future, fearing what may come to pass, and depression send the mind into the past, lamenting missed chances and what no longer is. If mindfulness works to bring the mind into the present then it cannot also occupy the past and future.

In the research, mindfulness is kept in the context of therapy, called mindfulness based therapy, to help treat anxiety and depression. One meta-analysis study by Boston University researchers looked at 39 studies that focused on mindfulness based therapy treating these disorders. They found that mindfulness based therapy was an effective treatment for anxiety and depression across these many research results (Hofman et al., 2010).


It does…so much more—I suspect we are just starting to understand what mindfulness can do for mental health and the research will only grow. In addition to the above, Jeena Cho presented more information on mindfulness in a Forbes article that included benefits such as increased body satisfaction, lower distractedness, and overall better cognition (2016). In personal and clinical experience, I find mindfulness improves focus, time management, and motivation. Such a vast array of payback for an easy and enjoyable practice!

Ready to learn to use mindfulness? Let’s get started…


How is mindfulness practiced?

As you know now, it can be used alongside meditation, but that’s not the only way to use it. I’d like to start you off with two of my go-to exercises for beginning mindfulness practice. These are separate from meditation and easy to do.


Mindful Breathing:

Find a quiet space to sit comfortably and close your eyes or soften them to focus on one spot. Start at five minutes and increase your time to 10 or 15 as you progress. You can set an alarm to manage time.
Once in your space, understand that the goal of mindful breathing is to focus on your breath and the sensations related to it. As you breathe, you can notice the air in and out of your lungs lifting and dropping the chest, stomach and/or shoulders. Feel the air temperature in and out and the sensation of air entering your throat.
During the time you’re practicing this focus your mind may wander. Acknowledge the stray thoughts, let them go, do not judge them or yourself, and calmly return to the breath. This exercise makes minimal demands while allowing for training in basic principles of mindfulness.

Due to its minimal nature, mindful breathing may be difficult to start with for people who need active focus. For this, I use the body scan exercise with elements of progressive muscle relaxation. This provides a moving focus while operating on the same principles.


Body Scan:

Find a comfortable seating position or lay flat with eyes closed or softened. The focus will start at the breath as in the mindful breathing exercise. Once focused, bring attention gradually to each food, calf, and thigh, the core, the chest and back, the shoulders, each arm and hand, the neck, and the head/face, moving up as though doing a scan of the body.
Examine each area for sensations such as temperature, internal feeling, external feeling, muscle tension, and so on. Once completed in the area of focus, let go of anything no serving you such as tension or judgment. It helps me to imagine it flowing out in light wisps; use any visualization you’d like. At the end you should feel muscles relaxed and return to your breathing before exiting the exercise.

After either the body scan or mindful breathing is completed, notice any thoughts that were difficult to let go of or sensations you didn’t recognize before starting. Consider if your temperature, posture, heart rate, or breathing changed. You may want to keep a journal of this process to see progress.
Once you feel you’ve made enough progress to feel comfortable in using mindfulness, you can use more advanced exercises as well. There are so many great resources for mindfulness exercises across the web and supported in mobile apps.


Mindful Eating:

This exercise turns a mundane, daily, sometimes thoughtless activity into an opportunity for awareness. It’s often recommended using a food that is small, textured, and aromatic to do this practice, such as a raisin. However, mindful eating can be done with any food you choose to eat.
Your goal will be to focus fully on eating without distracting thoughts or judgment. Take time to examine the food, each bite of it, with all senses. Feel the weight of the utensil in your hand, the temperature of the food, and the texture as you chew. Smell from the plate and from your utensil. See the colors, consistency, and arrangement of it. Hear the sounds of scraping, chewing, and swallowing. Of course, take time to slowly taste and savor each bite.


Three 3’s Grounding Exercise:

Mindfulness grounding exercises are helpful for a quick reset when the day gets overwhelming. While some use the 5-4-3-2-1 exercise, I prefer to use three 3’s because it’s easier to remember when focus is off. You can do this in any setting (that is safe to do so) by taking a moment to be aware. Start with finding three things you can feel such as the ground under your feet and examine each. Move on to three things you can hear like the tick of a clock and move through each slowly. Finally, attend to three things you can see and really take in the features of what you look at. Once completed, breath once to reset and bring your focus back to the present renewed.


Be consistent—These exercises are at their best when used consistently. Daily practice may not be necessary but regular practice makes it easier to use them naturally in daily life. It’s tempting to only use these when struggling, but practice when you’re doing well can increase effectiveness when stress is higher. Use mindfulness intentionally and consistently because practice makes…nothing is perfect…really good!


This information and the exercises are only the beginning. There’s a whole world of mindfulness techniques, tips, and technology available to advance and supplement your practice. Check out the the sources cited for more information on mindfulness and mental health.


Sources Cited

Cho, Jeena. “6 Scientifically Proven Benefits Of Mindfulness And Meditation.” Forbes, Forbes Magazine, 14 July 2016, www.forbes.com/sites/jeenacho/2016/07/14/10-scientifically-proven-benefits-of-mindfulness-and-meditation/#626ff6e163ce.

Hill, Christina L.M., and Updegraff, John A. “Mindfulness and Its Relationship to Emotional Regulation.” PubMed, vol. 12, no. 1, Dec. 2011, pp. 81–90. ResearchGate, doi:10.1037/a0026355

Hofmann, Stefan G, et al. “The Effect of Mindfulness-Based Therapy on Anxiety and Depression: A Meta-Analytic Review.” Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, vol. 78, no. 2, 2010, pp. 169–183. SemanticScholar, doi: 10.1037/a0018555.

Shapiro, Shauna L., et al. “Teaching Self-Care to Caregivers: Effects of Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction on the Mental Health of Therapists in Training.” Training and Education in Professional Psychology, vol. 1, no. 2, 2007, pp. 105–115., doi:10.1037/1931-3918.1.2.105.